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One of my kids recently celebrated their birthday. Chances are if I told you this in person, the first thing you would probably ask is how old they are.

But as I read yet another article on how age is just a number, I couldn’t help but wonder if we are possibly not celebrating the right thing when it comes to birthdays.

When we put a specific number of candles on the cake, are we focusing and setting expectations on someone’s number of years versus celebrating the actual person?

Depending on what we are counting, we may actually be recognizing the wrong age anyways. For example, as reported by CNN everyone has two ages. One is chronological and one is biological.

Your Chronological Age

Your chronological age is the age that you mark on the calendar. It’s the time that you have actually spent on this earth. It’s the number of candles you put on your cake.

Your Biological Age

Your biological age is actually more of an indication on how well your body and mind are aging. As the article shared;

“People with a biological age lower than their chronological age have a lower mortality risk, while those aging older from a biological standpoint have a higher mortality risk and are potentially more prone to developing the diseases associated with the higher age range”

What is really interesting is that there are now tests available to assess someone’s biological age. Conducting blood tests that reveal someone’s blood sugar, kidney and liver measures, immune and inflammation levels can all now be analyzed to estimate someone’s biological age.

The great news is that by getting this information, someone can then alter their lifestyle to help them lower their risks and in turn potentially extend their longevity.

So to get back to birthdays, as someone gets older and we count their years of life, could we be judging and setting expectations of someone's capabilities based on the wrong age? And if all the platitudes of age is just a number or that age doesn’t matter, then should we just stop counting candles altogether?

What would happen if we didn’t ask how old someone was on their birthday? What if we stopped making judgments or decisions based on someone’s age? Or even commenting on how well someone looked for their age?

Would this possibly help to reduce our age related views, expectations and even possibly ageism? For both the young and the old?

I realize that this idea flies directly against some long standing traditions but if we are truly to drive age related biases and thinking from our society maybe this is a good place to start. After all, age is the first thing that we start tracking as soon as someone is born.

Now I realize that we have some rights of passage that are based on age (for example driving and drinking age) so I'm not suggesting that we drop all references to age until we have established better methods of evaluating someone's competency or maturity but this might be a way to start small.

So here’s an idea. The next time you hear about or celebrate someone’s birthday, see if you can skip talking about their age and focus strictly on the person instead.

After all, they are what really makes that day special anyways.

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Susan Williams is the visionary founder of Booming Encore. With over 28 years of experience in corporate senior leadership and executive roles, she realized there was a significant gap in resources for those seeking a purposeful and healthy later life. Driven by her passion to make a difference, she decided that if she couldn't find it, she would create it and launched Booming Encore in 2013.

Since then, the Booming Encore has organically grown into a globally recognized authority on retirement, aging, and longevity. Susan’s commitment to empowering individuals is further reflected in her co-authorship of Retirement Heaven or Hell: Which Will You Choose? and her contributions to Longevity Lifestyle by Design.

An engaging speaker and advocate, Susan passionately shares the importance of all the aspects that can help people positively live, embrace and contribute in their later years. Today, she’s not just helping others create their own “booming encore”—she is actually living hers. Join her on this inspiring journey and also live your best booming encore!

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